Mood: crushed out
DEAL WITH AWKWARD SITUATIONS!
ok so today after schooli experienced the most awkward situation of my life, i was caught between this guy I liked named jeremy ( long stroy short it didnt work out so well) and this other guy i liked named jamari ( see he used to like me...well he might still but hes like upset about something and now were just "friends" which is a joke cuz hes always mad at me so we never really talk!). They were blocking both exits and i needed to leave. i could not figure out wich would be less awkward. The way i handled this situation was just to stand there with my friend julia and act like we were doing something. eventually jeremy moved so we quickly and quietly slipped out the door. was this the best way to handle the situation? maybe not but its hard to think on the spot, and so u dont have to i am here to give u some ways to get out of awkward situations.
- first of all if you ever find yourself in an awkward situation remember to keep the 3 c's: calm, cool, confident. in other words act like the situation is not awkward
- ok say some person comes up to u and says "hey (your name here)!" you remember meetng this person but his/her name isnt ringing a bell....my advice here would be just to be honest. tell the person that you completly remember meeting him/her but you arent that good with names, and when they tell you wether you remember them telling you before or not say "oh yes how stupid of me i totally remember you telling me that!" just to make up for not knowing their name.
- now this is an espiecially awkward one for me because i never know what to say. say one of your friends comes up to u crying and says " my friend/relative/(add something else here) died!! i never really know what to say to stuff like that well heres the best advice i have: say "deepest sympathies. I know that there are really no words to describe your loss. Know I’m here for you anytime if you need someone to talk to.
If you’ve personally experienced the situation before you could add, “I know what it’s like to lose a loved one and how challenging this time can be.” but if you havent dont try and pretend like you have.
- ok so in this one You're trapped in an awkward situation where you're expected to converse with an ex-boyfriend. well first of all try to keep the focus on him by asking general questions about his life to try to avoid the even more awkward situation of you being in the hot seat.
...alright so im gonna go i hoped i helped you out but if your reading this and i didnt answer your quetion just email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
lots of love <3